Dating stages in new relationship
I know some of the things she did were not okay, but I have a temper too and I have said crappy things to people when I’ve been upset before.My longest ever relationship was only about 10 months, and I’ve seen my friends yell at their significant other, so maybe it’s not uncommon.
I asked her to move, and she told me I was being ridiculous, it’s my apartment and I couldn’t just leave. She said that we’re still getting to know each other, and if she’d known me better she wouldn’t have said that.
She doesn’t think I understand that it’s a big deal for her and she feels like once we start, she needs to get off and she can’t just stop.
I told her that she had scared me and she said that she never meant to do that.
She said I was lying when I said I didn’t know why I wanted to stop, and told me that I needed to remember there’s two people in this relationship, and it’s not just about what I want. I thought if I didn’t engage, she’d stop eventually, but she just alternated between cajoling and berating me.
At one point, she started hitting herself in the face.
She ended up telling me that I was acting fucking retarded, and I was a fucking bitch.